Rollup merge of #152879 - nnethercote:rm-impl-IntoQueryParam-ref-P, r=oli-obk

Remove `impl IntoQueryParam<P> for &'a P`.

`IntoQueryParam` is a trait that lets query callers be a bit sloppy with the passed-in key.
- Types similar to `DefId` will be auto-converted to `DefId`. Likewise for `LocalDefId`.
- Reference types will be auto-derefed.

The auto-conversion is genuinely useful; the auto-derefing much less so. In practice it's only used for passing `&DefId` to queries that accept `DefId`, which is an anti-pattern because `DefId` is marked with `#[rustc_pass_by_value]`.

This commit removes the auto-deref impl and makes the necessary sigil adjustments. (I generally avoid using `*` to deref manually at call sites, preferring to deref via `&` in patterns or via `*` in match expressions. Mostly because that way a single deref often covers multiple call sites.)

r? @cjgillot