chore: rename automatically generated "unfold" theorems

Given a definition `foo`, they were previously called `foo._unfold`
until 4.7.0. We tried to rename them to `foo.def`, but it created too
many issues in the Mathlib repo. We decided to rename it again to
`foo.eq_def`. The new name is also consistent with the `eq_<idx>`
theorems generated for different "cases". That is, `foo.eq_def` is the
equality theorem for the whole definition, and `foo.eq_<idx>` is the
equality theorem for case `<idx>`.