Xcode: Pass compile definitions to Swift

correct Xcode generator Swift definitions
original code was defining GCC_PREPROCESSOR_DEFINITIONS which is valid only for C languages
add definitions to SWIFT_ACTIVE_COMPILATION_CONDITIONS when Swift language is used in the target
add test in SwiftOnly
for old Xcode (<8.0), append defines to cflags so it ends up in OTHER_SWIFT_FLAGS

Fixes: #23637