target_link_libraries: Optionally require only target names

Optionally verify that items in `LINK_LIBRARIES` and
`INTERFACE_LINK_LIBRARIES` that can be target names are actually target
names.  Add a `LINK_LIBRARIES_ONLY_TARGETS` target property and
corresponding `CMAKE_LINK_LIBRARIES_ONLY_TARGETS` variable to enable
this new check.

Fixes: #22858