FindZLIB: more library names + option to prefer static library

Adds additional library names `zlibstat[d]` and `zlibvc[d]` for Windows,
when zlib is built using one of the Visual Studio solutions under
`zlib/contrib/vstudio`.

Adds a `ZLIB_USE_STATIC_LIBS` option that is equivilent to similar
settings in other modules such as FindProtobuf, FindOpenSSL, etc.

Implements #18029 and #23140